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Owen
Wilson's Commitment Conflicts
written October 2006
You
can tell Owen Wilson is unusual the first time you see him in
a film. Shaggy hair, crooked nose: he doesn't look like your everyday
film star. And even though the parts he plays are typically the
sophomoric doofus, his presence lingers and suggests a deeper
and more complex character lies beneath. His
astrological chart suggests that the same is true for Wilson
himself. Recent gossip reports have suggested that Kate Hudson
has left her husband for a romance with Owen Wilson, so I looked
into their charts for the National Ledger entertainment column.
Owen
Wilson has the Sun in Scorpio, along with three other planets
(Neptune, Mercury and the Moon), giving him an exceptionally strong
intensity and passion in everything he does. Scorpio is a fiery
water sign that is anchored in the realm of the emotional underworld;
the dark and deep underbelly of our feelings that others may fear
to witness. There is a great deal of courage in the Scorpio personality,
since they are the ones willing to face their inner demons and
become transformed by them. This doesn't sound like the Owen Wilson
that we see in films, but this is due to the fact that it is actually
the sign that is rising in the chart, the ascendant or rising
sign, that describes the outward personality. The rising sign
is determined by the time of birth, and this is rarely available
for celebrities so all we can do is make a guess, and in Wilson's
case I would guess his rising sign to be something fiery such
as Leo or Sagittarius. Wilson himself has said that he is surprised
he ended up in comedy, because he was so serious in high school.However,
the inner Owen Wilson is strongly Scorpio.
Scorpios
have a reputation for being sexy, and it's true that there is
a strongly sexual component to their nature, but they are much
more. They can be intensely secretive with a strong need to be
in control of their relationships, and typically become consumed
by their relationships and everything else they do because of
their intensity. They dislike the superficial and probe beneath
the surface in order to discover what lies beneath. Even under
Owen Wilson's silliest characters there is a depth that surprises
you.
Wilson's
chart is made more complex with the addition of three planets
in Libra, the sign of relationships (Mars, Uranus and Jupiter).
Partnerships are very important to him with this strong Libra
emphasis, but the combination of Mars and Uranus can be problematic.
Mars is our aggressive urge and Uranus shows where we are rebellious
and dislike convention, and this is a combination that is exciting
and energetic but also dislikes restrictions. Wilson enjoys living
alone and when in a relationship with a woman he fears the restrictions
that a commitment will require. When Wilson broke up with singer
Sheryl Crow, his last serious relationship, he said that his lack
of "focus" (read commitment) was the cause of the failure
of all of his relationships. His most recent publicized relationship
was with a Hollywood stripper which ended with Wilson feeling
trapped. This need for freedom and autonomy conflicts with Wilson's
intensely passionate nature, and creates within him a conflict
over commitment.
Kate
Hudson is an Aries, the sign of initiation and will. Aries people
tend to be headstrong and courageous, and typically see the best
in people. Kate's Mercury (communication) and Mars (desire) is
also in Aries, intensifying her fiery and independent nature.
However, she is also a romantic with with Venus (relationships)
in sensitive Pisces. The planet Neptune, the planet of dreams
and illusion, makes a challenging aspect (square) to Kate's Venus.
This combination often shows someone to whom the fantasy of love
may be more real than the actual experience, and with her strong
Aries nature she prefers to see the best in the situation rather
than what might be under the surface.
Kate
and Owen met in the romanticized world of a film set and in the
thrill of an illicit relationship. Both of them thrive on excitement,
so this is no doubt an intoxicated time for them. But do they
have what it takes to go the distance? Mars shows sexual compatibility,
and Owen's Venus connects with Kate's Venus, showing a strong
love connection as well. These are all very positive for a loving
relationship. They could have difficulties in communication, however;
Kate's Mercury is in headstrong and willful Aries which tends
to be combative and needs to win; Owen's Mercury is in Scorpio,
which needs to be in control and holds a grudge. They will need
to make a special effort to understand each other and listen to
what is said below the surface.
The
relationship the planets make from one person's chart to other
tells us how each person perceives the other, and overall the
planets of these two work well together. However, like all relationships
(even the most successful ones) there are some potential difficulties
here. Pluto in Kate's chart makes a square to Venus in Owen's
chart showing a powerful (Pluto) connection (Venus), but one where
Owen may feel overpowered by Kate. Saturn (commitment) in Owen's
chart is opposite Uranus (freedom) in Kate's chart, showing that
Owen is likely to be the one here that wants the commitment, which
Kate may run from.
Many
of us have conflicts over commitment that are shown in the birthchart
when there is both a need for connection, such as the strong Scorpio
nature, with a craving for autonomy such as the Mars/Uranus/Jupiter
combination. When these urges collide, we tend to swing from one
extreme to another until we achieve the balance of integrating
both within ourselves. It's not unusual for an individual with
this sort of conflict to be the pursuer in one relationship and
the one who flees in the next.
A
relationship like the one between Owen and Kate can succeed as
long as both partners recognize their inner need for autonomy
within the relationship. Owen's Scorpio nature is more likely
than Kate to crave a passionate love affair; Kate is romantic
and craves excitement but with her strong Aries nature she isn't
wired for the kind of intensity that Owen is likely to offer and
in time she may become easily overwhelmed by his emotions. It's
also possible that once the newness of the love affair has worn
off and the day-to-day reality begins that Kate will no longer
find what she is looking for here. But the astrology for these
two is positive overall, and only time will tell if they can work
through their internal issues and achieve happiness together.
Update
August 2007
It's
hard to imagine one of entertainment's funniest and most lovable
characters in such a dark place that he would try to end his life,
but that is apparently what Owen Wilson did over the weekend.
Wilson was most recently tabloid fodder when his relationship
with Kate Hudson ended earlier this year, and the news of his
hospitalization with a slit wrist and ingestion of a bottle of
pills coincided with announcements of starring roles in two new
films.
Owen
Wilson has the Sun in Scorpio, along with three other planets
(Neptune, Mercury and the Moon), giving him an exceptionally strong
intensity and passion in everything he does. Scorpio is a fiery
water sign that is anchored in the realm of the emotional underworld;
the dark and deep underbelly of our feelings that others may fear
to witness. There is a great deal of courage in the Scorpio personality,
since they are the ones willing to face their inner demons and
become transformed by them. This doesn't sound like the Owen Wilson
that we see in films, but this is due to the fact that it is actually
the sign that is rising in the chart, the ascendant or rising
sign, that describes the outward personality. The rising sign
is determined by the time of birth, and this is rarely available
for celebrities so all we can do is make a guess, and in Wilson's
case I would guess his rising sign to be something fiery such
as Leo or Sagittarius. Wilson himself has said that he is surprised
he ended up in comedy, because he was so serious in high school.
However, the inner Owen Wilson is strongly Scorpio.
Scorpios
have a reputation for being sexy, and it's true that there is
a strongly sexual component to their nature, but they are much
more. They can be intensely secretive with a strong need to be
in control of their relationships, and typically become consumed
by their relationships and everything else they do because of
their intensity. They dislike the superficial and probe beneath
the surface in order to discover what lies beneath. Even under
Owen Wilson's silliest characters there is a depth that surprises
you.
Neptune
conjuncts the Sun in Wilson's chart, creating a tendency to lose
the Self - in other people, in one's work, in whatever he becomes
involved in. The Sun/Neptune conjunction shows a lack of boundaries
and difficulty establishing an identity for himself. Ultimately,
the combination of Neptune and the Sun encourages us to be spiritual
beings and to surrender our individual self to a higher purpose.
But if we fail to reach the heights of that aspiration we may
find ourselves surrendering instead to drugs and alcohol in an
attempt to achieve that transcendent experience.
Wilson's
chart is made more complex with the addition of three planets
in Libra, the sign of relationships (Mars, Uranus and Jupiter).
Partnerships are very important to him with this strong Libra
emphasis, but the combination of Mars and Uranus can be problematic.
Mars is our aggressive urge and Uranus shows where we are rebellious
and dislike convention, and this is a combination that is exciting
and energetic but also dislikes restrictions. Wilson enjoys living
alone and when in a relationship with a woman he fears the restrictions
that a commitment will require. When Wilson broke up with singer
Sheryl Crow, his last serious relationship, he said that his lack
of "focus" (read commitment) was the cause of the failure
of all of his relationships. His most recent publicized relationship
was with a Hollywood stripper which ended with Wilson feeling
trapped. This need for freedom and autonomy conflicts with Wilson's
intensely passionate nature, and creates within him a conflict
over commitment.
When
transiting Saturn made a conjunction to Venus as well as Mercury
earlier this month, all in Leo, these planets were all in a square
formation to Wilson's Sun/Neptune conjunction. Saturn is known
as the Lord of Karma, and when we experience challenging Saturn
transits the chickens come home to roost. These can be very productive
periods if we face the challenges that are offered to us, but
they can also be times of depression and emotional pain.
What
is more difficult for him right now is a transit of Pluto, the
planet of endings and regeneration, that is affecting Chiron in
his chart. Chiron shows where we have been wounded and where we
have a place in our inner psyche of emotional pain that requires
healing. Pluto transits to Chiron force us to face those difficult
places and release the pain so that we can leave the past behind
and move forward. Since we are only human, we tend to run from
these painful cycles until we can run no more, and for Owen Wilson
that time appears to have come.
Pluto
will continue to pass over sensitive places in Wilson's chart
throughout next year, making this a time of change and transformation
for him.
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