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Sheryl
Crow & Lance Armstrong
February 5, 2006
I
am always suspicious when a couple is excessively demonstrative
in public, constantly talking about how happy they are as if
they have something they need to prove, even if only to themselves.
And even though I'm a big Sheryl Crow fan, something about this
relationship bothered me from the beginning. Then when I heard
her new Wildflower CD it seemed she had changed, softened but
not necessarily in a good way. So I wasn't really surprised
to hear that Sheryl and Lance announced that they were splitting
up.
Sheryl
Crow has an extreme chart - she has a whopping 6 planets in Aquarius
including two tight triple conjunctions: Saturn/Mars/Mercury and
Jupiter/Sun/Venus. Jupiter/Sun/Venus indicates a strong attractive
(Venus) power that can bring success (Jupiter). Saturn/Mars/Mercury
gives her a good head for business but a temper too (Mars/Mercury).
Aquarius is a rational air sign, and not by itself well suited
to personal relationships. (See this post on Aquarius for more
details.) Her Jupiter/Sun conjunction gives her a taste for adventure
and a need for freedom, but her Sun/Venus conjunction shows that
she seeks to be in relationships (Venus) in order to fully express
her Self.
To
complicate matters, that Sun/Venus is opposed by Uranus, the planet
of individuality and rebellion. This sets up a relatively common
conflict called the "freedom/closeness dilemma," where
part of us wants to be close in relationships and another part
of us does not. We've seen several other women in this column
with similar dynamics: Angelina Jolie and Evangeline Lilly. Often
people with this kind of inner conflict handle it by consistently
attracting partners who are remote or unavailable.
Lance
Armstrong is a miracle on the bicycle. After recovering from testicular
cancer he went on to win the Tour de France seven times. A Virgo,
he has four planets in that sign including Mercury and his Moon,
and Pluto conjunct the Sun. Pluto deals with issues of death and
rebirth, and when Pluto is so close to the Sun as it is in Lance's
chart the individual often is forced to deal with these issues
from a front row seat. Virgo is concerned with matters of health
and healing, and can be meticulous about nutrition and exercise.
Lance Armstrong is known in the sporting world for his diligence
in training and technique.
Pluto
also conjuncts Venus in Lance's chart, although they are "out
of sign" which weakens the conjunction somewhat. Still, the
force of the underworld (Pluto) strongly marks his relationships
(Venus), showing that he can be intensely passionate with his
loved ones. Jupiter (opportunity) and Neptune (creativity) are
in harmonious relationship (sextile) to Venus in his chart, showing
that he has a strong creative streak (Neptune/Venus) and that
his relationships with others bring him good fortune (Jupiter/Venus).
Astrological
compatibility is an interesting adventure. The textbooks would
say that Lance as a Virgo and Sheryl as an Aquarius are incompatible,
yet they had some strong attractive qualities between them. Each
one's Mars conjuncts the other, showing strong sexual chemistry
and compatibility. Each one's Saturn makes a harmonious aspect
(trine) to that of the other, showing that they felt a strong
commitment (Saturn) to each other and a desire to formalize (Saturn)
their relationship. However, the difficulties were evident: Lance's
strong Virgo need to continue to focus on his work in order to
achieve the famous Virgo perfection could not accommodate Sheryl's
need to continually reinvent her life (Aquarius/Uranus) and break
free of the routine that Virgo craves. There is some evidence
in their chart interaction that Sheryl may have overwhelmed Lance
with her intensity (her Pluto conjunct his Mercury), especially
since his chart predisposes him to conflicted emotions regarding
that kind of Plutonic intensity. There is also some evidence that
she could be deceived by him (his Mars squaring her Neptune),
or that she failed to clearly see where the relationship was going.
Sheryl
has been having a rough time over the past year or so. Transiting
Uranus has made a pass over Pluto in Sheryl's chart, turning her
world upside down and disorienting her completely. Ironically,
the final pass of this transit occurred on February 3, the date
the split was announced. Saturn has been testing her with an opposition
to her natal Saturn, creating blocks and disappointments and keeping
her from moving forward. In addition, transiting Chiron (in Aquarius)
is just beginning a pass of Sheryl's Aquarian planets. However,
transiting Pluto is beginning a harmonious dance with Venus in
her chart, showing us that this experience will help to facilitate
a powerful transformation (Pluto) in the way that she approaches
relationships (Venus) in her life.
Previous
interviews with Lance Armstrong show that marriage was never a
strong goal for him, and the gossip mill indicates that he was
the instigator of the split. His transits (including several harmonious
transits of Chiron, the wounded healer archetype) marking the
period before the breakup seem to indicate that he was in an evolutionary
process of healing. But he also was experiencing transiting Uranus
in stressful aspect to Mercury in his chart, instigating sudden
changes in direction and unpredictability. Rumor has it that Lance
had already broken it off with Sheryl several times during this
period and perhaps they will ultimately reconcile. In order to
achieve lasting happiness in a partnership, however, the individuals
must realize the truth of their own direction and that of their
partners.
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