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STUDY
OF A MARRIAGE: JOHN AND ELIZABETH EDWARDS
March 2007
I
have resisted writing about the recent announcement that the Edwards
campaign will continue despite the announcement that Elizabeth
Edwards' breast cancer has returned. Mostly this is because I
feel a great deal of judgement about that decision, and I also
feel it's not for me or anyone else to judge the life decisions
that anyone makes. But what really interests me is the marriage
of Elizabeth and John Edwards and the strong connection that they
have which has remained strong through the death of a child and
a challenging political career.
You
can read my profile of John Edwards here,
but essentially :
John
Edwards is driven both by a sincere desire to help people and
a fierce ambition combined with a brilliant intellect. But with
four planets in Gemini, he has difficulty focusing. Gemini of
course is the sign of the twins, the sign of communication. Gemini
has a thirst for experience, an intense curiosity and a desire
to digest as much information as possible. Gemini is the jack
of all trades and extremely versatile; they are chameleons who
can change their skins frequently and in fact they usually dislike
becoming overly involved in one particular project. The career
of John Edwards has reflected this trait.
Elizabeth,
on the other hand, is a Cancer and her life is focused on nurturing
those that she loves. In my workshops on relationships I teach
that there is no way to assess compatibility based on Sun Signs,
and the Edwards' are a great example. The Sun shows our quest
or our mission in life, and two people can have very different
missions yet share the same values and soul connections.
(See
charts here.) With her Moon in Libra, Elizabeth craves equal
partnership and by all accounts has succeeded in establishing
that in her marriage. Elizabeth is John's main policy adviser
and a partner in his campaign as well as in life. They have a
deep underlying emotional harmony, with John's Moon in Gemini
trine Elizabeth's Libra Moon, and there is a mutual Mercury/Sun
aspect in their charts with John's Cancer Mercury conjunct Elizabeth's
Sun and Elizabeth's Mars/Mercury aspect conjunct John's Sun. This
shows a strong understanding (Mercury represents communication)
between them.
Both
Elizabeth and John have a painful aspect of Saturn in square to
Chiron in their charts, which shows that they share a fate of
going through painful experiences that ultimately create a healing
process (Chiron) as they are forced to confront (Saturn) uncomfortable
issues within themselves. When two people permit each other to
delve into the depths of this sort of process, rather than blame
each other for their difficulties, it forges an incredibly deep
bond. However, Chiron in each of their charts may interact painfully
with the Moon in the chart of the other, which suggests that their
partnership has not always been easy.
The
two charts show some nice Saturn aspects between the charts, indicating
longevity and commitment. The positive manifestation of Saturn
confers discipline and responsibility, and harmonious Saturn aspects
between charts are a signal of a long-lasting partnership.
A
couple is an entity separate from the two individuals involved,
and this is shown by the composite chart. For John and Elizabeth
Edwards, the composite chart reveals the Sun in Cancer, showing
that the focus of their relationship is on nurturing and caring
for each other and for their family. The Sun conjoins Uranus,
the planet of freedom and autonomy, reflecting the independence
that each of them has within the marriage. Jupiter in Aries calls
for adventure and excitement, and squares both the Sun and Uranus
which shows a relentless optimism (Jupiter/Sun) that is not always
realistic. Saturn in the chart squares Mars, which shows that
their drive and desires (Mars) are often thwarted (Saturn). There
is a restlessness here with the Jupiter/Uranus square that makes
it difficult to settle down.
Planetary
transits to the composite chart often indicate trends that the
couple is going through, and transiting Pluto is conjunct Chiron
in the composite chart, a clear indicator of the transformation
(Pluto) that is taking place as the Edwards' attempt to heal (Chiron)
Elizabeth's cancer. In a marriage, an illness doesn't just belong
to the sick person - it belongs to the couple and of course to
the family as well. The next two years will be powerful ones for
the Edwards family; they could be the best of times and the worst
as Pluto and Chiron perform their dance of destiny.
Update
2009: We now know that those two years were in fact the worst
of times for the Edwards family with the revelation of John Edwards'
affair and the resulting media circus that followed.
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